Upon researching for data for this subject, I am not surprised to find that there are no articles about this subject written by women. I can also attest to the fact that this subject is very unpopular in groups of women. The truth is however, is that women are doing this all the time, and as a woman, I can assure you they know exactly what they are doing. They say things like, "I was on the pill, and I still got pregnant!", "Oh, my IUD didn't work", or "Oh, no one told me not to take antibiotics, and that it would mess with my birth control pill". This is, as we say in my family, "horse hockey". One can give these women a couple of drinks at a party and encourage them to continue talking about this subject, and the truth will come out. Suddenly they remember that... oh, they had stopped taking the pill without notifying their partner. Sometimes its just a careless, but honest mistake, however I have seen first hand that many times this is deliberately done to a man, by a woman who can't stand the thought of losing him, and will use any means to keep him in her life. And it's always the good men that this happens to, a man that she knows will take care of her. It's the guys with the drive, the earning potential, the responsible ones. They date a girl that's not good enough for him, or under his league, and she never had a good man before, and she also knows that he will leave her, and viola, suddenly she's "accidentally" pregnant. The only good thing that comes out of it is a baby, but there are far more bad side effects. A bitter and nasty Baby Mama, because he doesn't really want her in his life, and she knows it. Her plan didn't quite work out the way she expected. She thought that his feelings would grow tender towards her if she carried his child, but instead he sees her as an incubator for his seed. She continues to manipulate him with the child after it's born and suck him dry of every penny that he earns. This ends up putting him in a lower level of the dating pool because other women do not want to deal with Baby Mama's psycho-bullshit and they also do not want to date a man that is being sucked dry financially and emotionally by another woman. Baby Mama will create false emergencies to take as much of his time as possible, to see him, because she is obsessed with him, and also to keep him away from other women. If I were a man, and this happened to me while being single, there would be no way in the world that I would not get a DNA test done to make sure that the child was mine before I got on this crazy train. And to all of those men that I've ever met that have been victims of this, to them I say, 'take control, and good luck'.
