Sunday, July 25, 2010

The Nice Guy vs The Good Bad Boy


He's a Nice Guy, a sweet and gentle man.  He is handsome, with kind eyes and a passive nature.  His parents raised him to be kind and nurturing.  He is a simple man with no suprises.  What you see is what you get.  And all of the "fucked up" women around him, that he's attracted to, are not attracted to Nice Guys.  He says that he'll be alone for the rest of his life, because women say they "just want a good man", but they really don't.  He says they want to date dick heads; men with anger issues and communication problems.  And he's right for the most part, but there is another creature out there.  A man that has balance.  A man that has edge but is not an ass.  A man that I call the Good Bad Boy.  Good Bad Boy's have that style and edge, but they are still gentlemen.  However a gentleman, that is in complete control.  Just like good old Rhett Butler, they are confident, mysterious and cocky, but always ready to open doors and buy sparkly things, if... you're a good girl.